Making a Strong Case for Shared Child Custody
When a divorcing parent in Kansas seeks shared physical custody, it’s crucial to present a compelling case that this arrangement is in the best interests of the children. Courts in Kansas prioritize the children’s well-being above all else when making custody determinations, so parents must focus on crafting a solid parenting plan and showing that they can provide a stable, supportive environment free from domestic violence or abuse.
A parenting plan is one of the most critical components in convincing the court that shared custody is the best option. This plan should clearly outline how both parents will share responsibilities and ensure that the children’s needs are met. Here are key elements that a well-thought-out parenting plan should include:
- Visitation schedule — The plan should detail when the children will be with each parent, including weekday and weekend arrangements, holidays, school vacations, and special occasions. Consistency and predictability in the schedule are vital, as they provide children with a sense of stability.
- Decision-making responsibilities — The plan should specify how decisions will be made about the children’s education, healthcare, religious upbringing, and extracurricular activities. It should show the court that both parents are willing to cooperate and make joint decisions that benefit the children.
- Communication plan — The plan should outline how parents will communicate about the children, whether through phone calls, emails, or a co-parenting app. It should also include provisions for resolving disputes that may arise.
- Transportation arrangements — The plan should include details about how the children will be transported between the two homes and who will bear the transportation responsibilities. This shows the court that both parents are committed to ensuring the children’s well-being during transitions.
A parent seeking to secure shared custody must demonstrate that the proposed arrangement serves the children’s best interests. Kansas courts making this determination consider several factors, including the child’s relationship with each parent, the child’s adjustment to home, school, and community and the mental and physical health of all parties involved. A parent should focus on these points:
- Stable environment — Show that your home environment is stable and conducive to the children’s growth. This includes having a suitable living arrangement, ensuring the children’s educational needs are met, and providing a nurturing atmosphere.
- Co-parenting cooperation — Demonstrating a willingness to cooperate with the other parent is crucial. The court needs to see that both parents can work together for the benefit of the children, putting aside any personal differences.
- Absence of domestic violence or abuse — Kansas courts will not award shared custody if there is evidence of domestic violence or abuse. A history of violence against the other parent or the children will severely undermine a shared custody case. It’s vital to show the court that both parents can provide a safe environment for the children.
By focusing on these factors with the aid of a qualified family law attorney, a divorcing parent in Kansas is well-positioned to convince the court that the proposed arrangement is in the best interests of the children.
Peggs Wheeler, LC in Wichita provides reliable counsel for child custody cases and a variety of family law matters throughout Kansas. Call 316-512-7853 or contact us online for a consultation.

